In this day and age men are getting rid of their diamond for a girl that's all about showing them a good time. I say that they have commitment issues but that's not the case. What makes a man really go outside of their relationship to become a statistic. We as females should never settle for less than what we deserve. But lets face it all the good men left in this world is either gay or just very nerdy. Its really hard to find true love. With girls having to be more than hoes to attract a semi decent guy is very disgusting to me. The concept of having two wives came to me when I was watching a show called love and hip hop. This guy name peter gunz made me think it is possible. You can be with someone for years and you guys live together and grow as a man and wife should. Then he went off in another relationship which he did put a ring on it. By law they were husband and wife but he treated her like she wasn't nothing but a side hoe. So you see their is a certain twist to the plot where he had his legally on papers in gods eye wife and the other girl who he loved and treated her like an actual wife rather than his wife. So sometimes there can be a side track to everything we believe in days. Treat me like your all everything one and only queen when were just a couple and treat me like that and more once we made things official in the hands of the lord. We have some women in this wold that is actually very strong and determined when their in a relationship. They will stay with their man through thick and thin.Some are for better and some are for worst. Let me explain the difference when your with a man and you are struggling financially because he is a little down on his luck and its a little rough for you guys. When the both of are living from hand to mouth because u guys are saving or just not that wealthy but it wasn't always like that and you stick it out until u guys get back on top that's an example as sticking it out for the better because everyone do fall short at times but if you can wait and be patient until u guys are good and your not with someone only for the benefits it proves that you do have wife instincts and you can hold your man down when he is slacking. Now let me explain sticking it out for the worst now. I think we both have a little hunch of what those reasons can be. Now some people been in relationships for so many years and given their all to that one person but not lets not confuse loving someone or being a fool for someone. I don't care if we have so much history together there are certain things you do not do while your in a relationship or even married. No cheating that's a big no no. If you can hurt me in the most disrespectful way and see me cry, hurt, or in pain there is no way u can possibly be my soul mate. Now I get it that is forgivable in most cases but if you cheat and have sex with someone else and there becomes a child involved that is unforgivable. Is it really hard nowadays to stay faithful to one person??? If I know you don't love me you lie hurt and cheat on me numerous times and you can't even own up to your mistakes then there can't be no healing process. That's the perfect examples of sticking it out for someone for the worst because you obviously know the man doesn't care about you or the relationship but you stay because your afraid of being lonely, starting over, or you just see past it because you love him and you don't want no one else. And that is simply fine just don't cry or complain to anyone about him because doesn't matter how much tears you shed you are never going to leave him. I guess in some ways that makes her a very attentive wife because she knows how to hide pain well and deal with every obstacle they may have face.
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